My coconut birthday cake!

Since I wrote about it last year, I thought I owe you a picture of my cake this year too!

I turned 34 on the 2nd of August.  The 5 candles you see on the cake are not related to my age :p

Just be warned… I will soon stop discussing my age altogether :p

My birthday this year was in the beautiful island of Phuket (Thailand).  The weather was beautiful: a bit of sunshine, a bit of monsoon rain, and a lovely starry night (huge difference to my dusty birthday last year)!

As we were driving to see a waterfall, I joked with the kids in the car and said “I think it’s the other way around for me because I feel younger today, so my age must be getting less”.

My 6-year-old Laith interjected immediately, saying, “that can’t be, mama, because you look older!”

“How??” I pleaded

“Your hair has more grey.  Your face is more round.  And you have more lines on your face than last year.” He said casually.

Somebody please shoot me, I thought.

I sulked for about 3 minutes and then the thought of my beautiful cake brought the smile back on my face.  It was a lovely sumptuous coconut pie, which my husband brought for breakfast! Awesome idea! It was so delicious that I still dream about it sometimes.  And to answer some cynics out there: yes, I do have cake sometimes, especially if it’s MY birthday! (see a picture of it above).

If anyone knows how to make coconut pie, please let me know!

Next year, my birthday will be in Ramadan.  I’ve never experienced that! (or maybe I did as a kid, I don’t remember)… Better think of a ramadan-themed healthy cake!  Will certainly keep you posted.

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Here’s a picture of the waterfall we went to… and the Thailand monsoon rain coming from the horizon!

The ‘Suhail & Alia Show’ – launch episode

At last! I’m so proud to present to you the 1st episode of the ‘Suhail & Alia Show‘.

At the spur of the moment, my husband Suhail Algosaibi and I, thought it might be interesting to give our viewers a glimpse into some of our personal conversations.   “Wouldn’t it be nice if we can talk out loud to the world?”, we thought.

Corny, I know, but you know what? He is one of the very few people that I know will listen to anything I say, no matter how strange and ‘out there’ it is.

So here it is! Uncut and unrehearsed.  The first episode of our show.

We’re testing it out at the moment, so let us know what you think.  With time, if this continues, we’ll have better picture and sound quality.

We need suggestions for names for the show! Leave a comment below with a suggestion of a name..

Featured in Marie Claire mag Malaysia!

I was very flattered when I was asked to contribute to an issue in Marie Claire magazine Malaysia!

And I’m now so happy to be able to show you the article itself now that it’s out :)

I will say no more and let you see it for yourself.  Have a look by clicking at the link below.

Marie Claire Malaysia Alia Article

Don’t forget to let me know what you think!

Help! My Kids Are Fussy Eaters!

A few days ago, I had a consultation with a mother-of-two who was pulling her hair out because of her children’s fussy eating. She says her 4-year-old used to eat well, but is now becoming more and more fussy as he gets older. And his 2-year-old sister seems to be following in the same footsteps. The list of foods that he ‘approves’ of eating is becoming shorter, and mealtimes have become a stressful experience for all involved.

“Am I doing something wrong?” She asked

Fussy Eaters

First let me tell you that the issue of fussy eaters is probably the most common issue I see among young parents today. That’s the topic all mothers discuss at gatherings, it’s the topic that comes up most frequently in my consultation office, and it’s the topic that’s causing a lot of stress to parents. So my advice to this particular mother was to completely change her approach to her children’s eating.

This is what I told her; I hope it helps you too.

First of all, I asked her to imagine sitting at the lunch table every day with people who were stressed out. Imagine your spouse huffing and puffing and really concerned about what you are eating and you finishing your plate. Then, imagine you have eaten and you are full, but your spouse gets upset that you haven’t finished your plate and orders you to keep eating beyond the point of being full.

“That’s not fun” she said.

I often ask mothers to tell me how they would feel if they have cooked a lovely healthy meal for their child and he refused to eat it or even try it.

The answers I often get are: frustration, anger, disappointment, depression, stress, sadness…

All the emotions parents feel when their child won’t eat are negative. So the child at mealtime is in essence surrounded by negative energy. And children pick that up, whether or not you’re showing it. Without intending to, parents often make mealtimes a stressful experience.

The Rules

So, Rule #1: Do not attach any emotion to your child’s eating. Offer healthy food at the table and then stay completely neutral to whether or not he eats it. The trick is to offer what’s at the table as the only choice, and the child gets nothing else until it’s snack time or time for the next meal.

Rule #2: teach your child to listen to his body’s signals. If he says he’s full, take his word for it. As adults, we have learnt to ignore that signal so often that it no longer comes and many adults end up eating without the ability to stop. I have a little rule in my house, where if any of my children say they are full after a meal, they are allowed to leave the table (even if they barely ate), but if they leave the table, they are not allowed back if they change their mind. So, they have learned to think twice and ‘ask their tummy’ if they are really full or just want to get to play.

Let it grow on them..

The second thing to think about is even more interesting. Imagine I come to your house and bring a plate full of a strange-looking food item that is green and wobbly. You have never seen or heard of it before. And it smells like nothing you have ever tried. Would you jump to try it? When I ask parents that question, most of them hesitate.

The reason they hesitate is because we need time to adjust to a new food item that is offered to us. Most of our eating habits are learned over our time.

But if I bring this dish to you every day and you see me eating it and enjoying it, it might grow on you and you might be more likely to try it and maybe even like it. It is said that children need to see a new food twenty times before they’ll agree to try it. Most parents give up after the second time.

This brings me to Rule 3: If you want your child to eat healthy food you have to persevere and keep offering it over and over again until it becomes part of their ‘approved’ list and venture into trying it.

What your children see at the table today will be what they will eat as adults. If you want them to grow into healthy adults, you have to start young. And the way to do it while they’re young is by repetition. And together with the repetition rule comes the next rule.

Market it!

Rule #4: you must become the household marketer for the foods you offer.

Imagine a new mobile phone comes on the market that you don’t know anything about. You wouldn’t exactly run off to buy it, right? But if it’s marketed and presented well, you might see the benefit it might have to you. If you keep seeing it on posters everywhere and hear people raving about it, you might finally buy it for yourself.

The same with children and food. Like adults, children need to know why they have to eat a certain food. What’s in it for them? Bringing a ‘healthy’ food to the table and asking them to eat it because ‘it’s good for you’ has no effect on kids whatsoever.

Presentation makes a big difference, but it goes beyond that.

You must learn how to make food interesting for your kids. Be specific and make it relevant to their lives today. For example, if your boy is into football, you can say “if you eat these lentils, you will get muscles that will help you score a goal the next time you play”. For a girl, you can tell her that salads will make her hair long and lustrous. Both statements are true, by the way. And then when they do score at football or develop great hair, you can say “wow, it must be all that salad you ate yesterday, I can’t believe it!”

Many parents would call that brainwashing but I call it ‘habit forming’. Eating healthy is a skill that many people don’t have; teaching it to your kids is the best gift you can give them.

For more of this good stuff, get my book ‘I Want Healthy Kids’ from Amazon

Or if you’re in Bahrain, you can pick up a copy from iSpace or Zen-Do in Hamala.

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My TV Debut!

Bahrain TVs Arabic channel is going through major revamps.  And part of their revamp is a morning programme called ‘Hala Bahrain’ which airs weekdays 9-11am.

Lucky for me, I was chosen to present the nutrition segment every Thursday morning!  Have you seen it?  It re-runs at 4:30pm of the same day.

Here’s one of the episodes that we’ve done.  It was about weight loss.

I’ll be posting more episodes as I get them…

You can see a short version on YouTube below or the full version on this link.

Alia Almoayed on Weight Loss ——- علياء المؤيد عن التنحيف from Alia Almoayed on Vimeo.

Enjoy!

My Award :)

Standard Chartered bank hosted a beautiful evening 2 weeks ago to honour TWELVE women in Bahrain who have ‘contributed positively to society’.

Lucky for me, I was one of them!

Well, they also launched their ‘Diva’ Account that night but we’ll pretend it was only about the honoured women, not the PR move.

Either way, I was very flattered and honoured to be chosen among various other women whom I admire and respect a lot. I felt like I was accepting an oscar and I almost thanked the Academy!

In truth, it feels good to know that someone is appreciating the hard work and dedication that I put into my job.  I hope my efforts will reach you too one day.  I have dreams of making Bahrain (and the world) a healthier place (I don’t care, I like to dream big!).

For all those who attended and sent their wishes, thank you :)

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Detox Hype

Everybody’s talking about some detox or another.  ‘Going on a detox diet’ seems to be the ‘in’ thing these days; it’s a conversation topic for many.

And as you can imagine, being a nutritionist, I get that question a lot.  ‘How do I detox?’ or even more common ‘do you have a quick detox that I can do?’

A few weeks ago, I had a one-on-one consultation with a lady who wanted to see me for a detox programme.  She had read a lot about the benefits of detoxifying the body and felt that it might help with her current symptoms, which were mainly fatigue, weight gain, and skin conditions.

The reason I’m using her case as an example is because her issue represents that of many.  Her story will hopefully help others.

Should You Detox?

When people come in for a detox programme, they usually start by talking about all the benefits that they think they will get once the toxins are out of their body.

“What makes you think you have toxins in your body?” I would ask.

“Because I have all these skin conditions, I’m always tired, and I can’t seem to lose weight and I read somewhere that going on a detox diet can help with weight loss” they would reply.

As we go deeper into the conversation, I realise that a lot of people don’t really understand the detox concept very well.  In fact, I would go as far as saying that most people don’t know what a detox really is but are usually too embarrassed to ask.

Do you really know what a Detox is?

So, I explain that when you detox, you would be removing toxins from your body that you might have accumulated over months and even years.  We are in essence cleaning out the body from the inside out.  But what many people don’t realise is that the detox process is not always a mild one.  Some toxins are very hard to get rid of and their removal sometimes puts the body under a lot of stress.  “It’s not a walk in the park,” I would explain.

Toxins that enter our body are often not kept in the blood for too long in order to protect our vital organs.  If we have toxins in our system, our body would usually take them out of the blood and store them in fat cells away from the important organs.  That’s why many people feel worse when they lose a lot of weight quickly, because they would be shedding fat and toxins at the same time.  And as toxins come out of the fat stores, they must go through the body one more time, making many people depressed, cranky, and irritable in the process.

But this lady was very keen.  So we continued the discussion.

Mopping up the water

If you imagine there is a puddle of water in the room.  Detoxing would be like cleaning out that puddle and mopping the floor clean.  Now imagine that after you’ve cleaned the puddle, you come back a few hours later and there’s more water in the room.  What happened?

You’ve cleaned out the water but never really found the source of the problem.  And so it keeps coming back.  You would then have to go back and find the leaking tap and close it firmly.

That’s how I wanted to do it in her case.  It’s very easy to give a standard detox programme, but if you don’t know what you’re doing, you might end up cleaning a body that continues to be toxic.  That’s when you find that the detox programme has no long-term benefits and maybe even side-effects.

Find them first!

So, step one for us was to find the sources of toxins in her life.  If you think you are toxic, where do you think the toxins are coming from?  Before we do anything else, we have to close the tap!

With long-term fatigue, skin conditions and weight loss, I suspected that the toxins have been there a long time.  Skin conditions are usually the body’s last resort of getting rid of excess toxins.  The skin is often called ‘the second liver’ and is usually called on when the liver is overwhelmed.  So where are the toxins coming from?

“Maybe from cleaning products that we use in the household?” she said.

“Yes, maybe, but it seems there are other, stronger toxins.. let’s explore” I said.

As we brainstormed, I found that she had two mercury fillings in her teeth that dated back to primary school.  Bingo.

She was also a bukhoor (insence) addict and they would burn incense in their house every day to the extent that she sometimes can’t breathe properly and ends up opening the windows.  Double bingo!

She also had a mosquito allergy growing up so she used to buy the odour-less insect spray and spray it all around her room and her bed, even just before bed, for many years.  Triple bingo!

Combine that with aluminium-based anti-perspirants, toxic house-hold products, outside pollution, caffeine overload, inorganic fruits and vegetables and you have toxicity problem on your hands.

“I considered doing a detox from a book that I had but never got around to it” she added.

“If you had done a detox with all these active toxins, your system would have crashed” I said.

When you detox while you still have active toxins running through your system, you risk a severe reaction to the process.

Before You detox…

… remember this

1)     Brainstorm all the different sources of toxins that you might be exposed to.

2)     Stop the sources of toxins first.  For example, if you have mercury fillings, replace them; or if you smoke, stop smoking before you detox.

3)     Do not detox if you are pregnant, breastfeeding, or considering conceiving in the near future

4)     Start with a mild detox programme that would take your current lifestyle, stress levels, and sanity into consideration.

For an individualised detox programme or a detox seminar, contact me through my website on www.AliaAlmoayed.com

Are MEN turning into women?

If you are a man and you’re tired of hearing about female hormone problems and ‘women issues’, then you should read this.

Many men today are unknowingly experiencing a hormone shift that is affecting their hormone levels and giving them health problems similar to women’s!

As men age, their testosterone (dominant male hormone) levels naturally decrease.  And, as a result, when male hormones decrease, the ratio of male-to-female-hormones shifts and oestrogen (the female-dominant hormone) starts to become dominant in men’s bodies, slowly making their ‘female-like’ symptoms more prominent.

The problem is, oestrogen levels in men’s bodies are not only increased due to natural changes; men today are more and more exposed to hormones and hormone-like substances that are also coming from their diet and environment.

Where are hormones coming from?

Many animals today are pumped with hormones (mainly oestrogen) to make them grow fatter and faster.  As a result, much of the animal products that we consume contain hormones that we have no control over.  Examples of such products are meat, poultry, milk, cheese, eggs, etc.

Sugar is another reason for hormone imbalance.  When you eat too much sugar, your body produces high insulin levels.  Too much insulin messes up the delicate balance between male and female hormones in the body, allowing female hormones to dominate.  And people today are consuming more sugar than they ever did before.  Sugar is not only found in chocolates and desserts, but also in cereals, fizzy drinks, alcohol, juices, and even some pasta sauces.

Furthermore, with the increase in prescriptions for birth control pills and HRT, and the increase in hormonal treatments for animals, an excess of hormones is flushing out into the sewage system to enter water circulation again.  So, even if you don’t necessarily drink tap water, the water is still used to water crops and feed animals.

And believe it or not, hormones are also coming from environmental toxins.  These toxins enter your body and act just like hormones.  They are called xeno-oestrogens.  They come from the polluted environment, sprays and pesticides on fruits and vegetables, smoking, mercury fillings, fluoride, plastic bottles, and much more.

What are hormones doing to you?

While in women, excess hormones cause PMS, breast pains, period problems, infertility, and even different cancers of the reproductive organs; in men, some effects of dominant female hormones, include:

  • Reduction in muscle mass and strength
  • Feminisation of the male body (e.g. increase in breast size, or even shrinking of the penis)
  • Weight gain, especially around the abdomen
  • Mood swings and depression
  • Loss of sex drive, and possibly impotence
  • Infertility and low sperm count
  • Bone loss and higher risk of osteoporosis
  • Higher risk of diseases like prostate cancer, heart disease, and diabetes
  • Lowered immunity and less resistance to colds and infections
  • Memory loss and accelerated ageing

How to reclaim your manhood

Start by looking at all the different possible sources of hormones or hormone-like substances in your diet and lifestyle.  Do you smoke?  Are you exposed to a polluted environment at work or at home? Do you drink a lot of coffee and tea? Do you eat lots of dairy products? Red meat? Alcohol?  Sugar and desserts? All these factors contribute to the hormone load on the body.

Then, introduce steps that help rebalance your hormones.  Start by replacing animal fats and trans fats (e.g. dairy products and animal fats, fried foods, etc.) with ‘good’ fats such as raw nuts and seeds. Add more fibre from wholegrains such as brown rice, oats, rye bread, beans and pulses. Fibre flushes out excess hormones; and so does regular exercise.

And finally, reduce your stress levels, and look for super foods that nature intended for all health problems such as raw honey, ginger, garlic, broccoli, parsley, flax seeds, and many more.

What’s interesting is that studies have shown that men are a lot less likely to see a doctor for a health problem than women, especially if it concerns their reproductive health. If you suspect you may have a hormone-related problem, find someone you trust and talk about it.  You can even take this article with you.

And for all of you parents out there, make sure you watch what hormones or ‘hormone-like’ substances your children are consuming today.  Kids today are reaching puberty much earlier than their counterparts 20 or 30 years ago, and they are showing lots of signs of hormonal imbalance such as anger, irritability, acne, fat around the belly, and much more!

Hormones are not just a women problem.  They affect men, women, and children.  Make sure you’re doing what it takes!

In the end, I will leave you to ponder this quote by Robert Cohen, “When it comes to food and semen quality, ask the expert! The research of Dr. Jaime Mendiolas shows that antioxidants in fresh fruits and vegetables help to improve semen quality and when the list of semen quality is compared between those eating from different food groups, milk drinkers come last.”

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Why can’t I lose weight!

Have you ever tried to lose weight but had a hard time?

Watch this video and find out how (and why!) you might be holding on to your fat cells without knowing it!

This video was taken from the amazing one-day ‘closed doors’ event for DreamBody Centre members who participated in the great competition that they have going.  You could lose weight and win a car in the process!  If you want to join, look at the DreamBody Centre website.  You still have time to join the competition too!

Have a look and let me know what you think

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What I Eat!

The most common question I get by far is “what do you eat?”

For some reason, people are interested to know what I eat.  They probably think I eat strange things, or they think that if they copy what I eat then all their health problems will go away!

Well, neither is true!

What I eat works for me, but it’s not the script that everyone should follow.  As you know, people are very individual.  We come in all shapes and sizes and what works for one person might not work for another.  Having said that, we could of course benefit from mirroring the eating and lifestyle habits of someone healthy, as long as we don’t get carried away with it.

Bust the myths

So, I’m going to give you a sneak peak into a typical couple of days for me.  It might help a few people.

But before I do that, I would like to bust some myths:

1)     Eating healthy does not make you superman. People who eat healthy can still get sick and they can also have ‘bad’ days.  I say that because many people gasp when I say that I’m not feeling well.  When they see the nutritionist sick, they start doubting that a healthy diet works.  What a healthy diet will give you is better recovery.  So hopefully, if you do get sick, you’ll be able to bounce back quicker and stronger than someone with an unhealthy diet.

2)     Eating healthy is a marathon, not a sprint. You can’t eat healthy for a short duration.  You have to plan for it as if it’s a whole lifestyle change that will last throughout your life.  With that in mind, you have to allow for the occasional ‘treat’ if you feel that you are the type of person who needs it.  And yes, I do have ‘treats’ sometimes so don’t panic when you see me eating cake at a party.

3)     Eating healthy is actually very enjoyable! A lot of people think that when they’re eating healthy they have to “bear with it until it’s over”, but I beg to differ.  It’s true that you only live once, but if you’re eating healthy, what a great life that would be!  Nothing beats knowing what it’s like to spring out of bed and pursue your dreams, and have a body to help you with all that!

4)     Eating healthy is not only for weight loss. I get a lot of the “why do you need to be on a diet, you’re already slim” comment.  First of all, eating healthy is not like going on a diet.  It’s a decision to change your eating routine and your lifestyle to move towards optimum health.  But I know a lot of ‘slim’ people who are not healthy at all!  Health is not measured by our weight.  You could be at your ideal weight but still need to improve your health.  Look at your energy levels, your heart, your skin, your mood, your bowel movements.  These are all indications of health.

5)     Healthy food will not keep you hungry. A lot of people equate being on a healthy routine with being on a ‘diet’.  They think they have to starve to be healthy.  If you are eating the right foods that your body is happy with, it will be satisfied a lot sooner than usual. For example, when my eating was very unhealthy I remember being hungry all the time.  Having soup or salad for dinner was not an option because I thought I would starve.  But as I improved my diet and my body started getting the vitamins and minerals that it needed from food, I had less cravings and even my appetite got smaller.  If you’re constantly hungry, that means you’re not giving your body what it needs in terms of nutrients, that’s why it keeps telling you to eat more in the hope that you’ll finally eat something that will help that deficiency!

Sneak Peak

So, with all these myths behind us, I will give you a sneak peak into my eating routine.  As a general rule, I like to vary my meals so that I’m not repeating anything I eat.  This helps prevent any food sensitivities that people develop when they repeat a certain food too often.  Most people do that with breakfast; they eat the same thing every morning.  If you are guilty of doing that, start rotating your breakfast options.

I also avoid all dairy products for reasons that I’ve talked about many times before, and I rarely have typical desserts or chocolates.

Wanna see?

Here’s an example of what I ate the past couple of days.

Day 1 -

Breakfast

Large salad with chickpeas and dressing

Snack

Carrot and cucumber sticks

Lunch

Mixed beans cooked with onion and tomatoes with oven-baked fish and green salad

Snack

Home-made almond brownies (my super-easy recipe)

Dinner

Home-made mixed vegetable soup

Day 2 –

Breakfast

Red apple slices drizzled with organic tahina sauce and carob molasses

Snack

Celery and green pepper sticks

Lunch

Lentil burgers with roasted vegetables and green salad

Snack

A handful of raw almonds with a couple of dates

Dinner

Large salad with okra, quinoa, and black-eyed peas

Leave a ‘comment’ and let me know what you think!

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